Friday, September 21, 2012

Let's Make a Change!

Alright, I'm going to start this post off by saying that sometimes it sucks being a woman. Like...a lot.

Ok. Done with that. Now, I'll get to the point of this post...Being green! I've always cared about the environment, and animals. I've always made an effort to buy organic products. More recently, in addition to buying organic products, I've become a huge advocate of buying products that are not tested on animals. I know that sometimes this is impossible, like when it comes to medicines and all that, but there is a lot that you can do.

NUMBER ONE. Get educated.
First thing is first, you need to decide what issues are important to you. To do this you need to do your research. But once you decide what issues you care about, you'll be able to take it to the next step.

NUMBER TWO. Decide what actions you're willing to take.
Although people may care about a cause, sometimes they aren't willing to sacrifice certain things to make a change. For example, after looking up information about animal testing, I found that many of the products that I use often come from companies that test on animals or use animal byproducts. If this is an issue you care about, you have to decide if you're willing to stop using those products. Cost is also a big factor. Organic products usually cost more than those that are not organic. This applies to pretty much everything, from food to beauty products. There are smaller steps you can take though. Things as simple as recycling, or taking shorter showers. You just have to decide.

NUMBER THREE. Start making changes.
Change isn't easy. So don't try to jump head-first into everything. If you do that, then you're not likely to keep up with everything, and you'll fall back into your old ways. For example, you could start by recycling. Right now, you're in the habit of throwing that milk jug away, tossing that magazine when you're done reading it, or chunking all those beer bottles left in your house after that crazy party. Well, these things go to the dump. And they stay there for a very, very long time. Some of those things will probably still be in the landfill when you die. So, put a recycling bin next to where your trashcan is. That way, you'll see it, and next time you go to toss that soda bottle, you'll be reminded to recycle it instead. Before you know it, recycling will just become habit. Then you can focus on making even more positive changes!

You can make a list of things that you want to do to make a difference. Here's some of mine:
  • Buy a lunch box and take lunch instead of wasting gas to go get food every day.
  • Invest in reusable napkins for at home, instead of paper towels.
  • Try to use products that are organic.
  • Start using all of the reusable grocery bags that we always forget we have.
  • Instead of buying bottled drinks, buy a reusable (BPA free) water bottle.
  • Compost our food wastes.
  • Begin to phase out the use of products that are tested on animals and replace them with those that are not.
  • Go vegetarian.
Feel free to steal any of my ideas. :) Now it's time for a "did you know" session.

DID YOU KNOW?  Mars candy company, the makers of Snickers, Twix, M&M's, and more, conducts cruel animal testing that isn't even required by law? Mars recently funded a deadly experiment on rats to determine the effects of chocolate ingredients on their blood vessels. Experimenters force-fed the rats by shoving plastic tubes down their throats and then cut open the rats' legs to expose an artery, which was clamped shut to block blood flow. After the experiment, the animals were killed. This isn't the only experiment they have done on animals. You should totally watch this video. (If music is still playing, scroll all the way down to pause it.)

 

Think about it...is that Snickers bar really worth it? Think about grabbing a Hershey's bar instead. They have pledged not to conduct any animal testing.

DID YOU KNOW?  Recycling really does make a difference. Here's a cool picture with some facts:



Now isn't that a cool little fact sheet? (Poor little sea creatures.)

DID YOU KNOW?  That just because a product is labeled "Natural" doesn't mean it's organic? When it comes to foods, the word "organic" refers to the way farmers grow and process agricultural products. This includes everything from fruits and veggies, to meat and dairy products. Organic farming practices are designed to encourage soil and water conservation and reduce pollution. Basically, organic foods are just more earth-friendly, and they don't contain the preservatives and stuff like conventionally grown foods. However, it isn't proven to be more healthier. Still, I don't want to be eating all those preservatives.

Well, hopefully you just learned something. And hopefully I've gotten you thinking. Here's a few websites and stuff you can check out to get more educated!

Recyclebank is a cool website that teaches you about being environmentally friendly by giving you lots of different facts and stuff. It allows you to gain points by doing different activities and taking pledges, and you can use these points towards rewards, such as discounts and coupons.

If you're interested in the animal testing issues, PETA has a really educational page explaining the problems, and how we can prevent it. To get there, click here. If you just want to get to their lists of companies that do and don't test on animals click here.

Organic.org talks all about organic foods, and the benefits of it. It tells you what you need to know about organic foods, from what the USDA Organic label means, to planning a budget for organic food and finding where to buy it (usually it can be found in your local grocery store, but there are also specialty stores).

I just think these Vapur water bottles are cool, and thought I'd share the link. :)

Well...I hope this post gets some of you thinking. It doesn't take a lot to make a change, and if every person took the steps to make a few minor changes, think of the difference that would make in the world!


Thursday, September 6, 2012

Oh, I still have a blog?

Man, it's been a while. I've been itching to write a new post for a while now, so here I am. :)

Since my last post:


*I've been employed as a Beauty Advisor at Walgreen's (which really isn't that fabulous), and it seems like I've been working allllll the time. I like it, and I like getting a paycheck, but I wish there was just a few more hours in the day, so I could do something other than sleep and work. Like...work out! Because I totally need it. But...as soon as I get the tires rotated on the Jeep, and I get it tuned up, I'm going to start taking belly dancing lessons! It's something I've wanted to do for a while, since I saw the dance company perform at Riverfest a few years ago. And now that I have a vehicle to use and money to pay for the lessons, I'm going to actually do it. I'm super duper excited. :)

*I've turned 19. It's not really very exciting, to be honest. I don't feel any different. BUT...I'm now only two years away from 21! Not like that's ever really made a difference when it comes to anything... But I'll be able to go clubbing. Yay! Plus, my family is totally taking me to Vegas for my 21st. That's something to look forward to. :)

*I still haven't decided what I want to do. The whole Air Force thing is still in the back of my head. But I've also thought about going to culinary school, going to Beebe to become either an RN or a vet tech, or going to school where ever to become a fitness trainer. Decisions, decisions. But I want to decide before I go back to school, so I don't waste money on pointless classes for no reason.

But yeah, that's what's been up. Halloween is coming up next month though, and I'm going to start some crafts that I found in magazines and online to get ready to decorate when it gets to be time for all that. I plan on geting really crafty for the holidays this year. I'm already looking at DIY Christmas gift ideas and recipes and such. Because I have nothing better to do with my time. But I like stuff like that, so it's ok. :)

Anyway, I'm tired. I closed last night, then opened this morning. I only got 4 hours of sleep, so I'm super sleepy. I'll definitely try to post more often again. :)

<3



 

Saturday, June 30, 2012

Hope It Gives You Hell.

Lol, nobody reads my blog anymore. But that's ok. Maybe it's because I don't post a link on Facebook whenever I write a new post. Maybe I'll do that again. Or maybe not. I write because I like to, not because I think people should read what I've written.

I'm actually blogging right now because something is on my mind, and this is where I go to let it all out. The other day I heard the old song "Gives You Hell" by the All American Rejects, which everybody has heard. And some of the verses really hit home with me. This song totally reminded me of a relationship I was in for about 2 years, that ended in January. It was one of those super annoying off and on relationships that everybody hates. Most of the time, I'm the one who broke up with him. You'd think that I'd learn after the first few times. But, I was stupid, and he was my first love, or whatever you want to call it. But each time we got back together, the break ups kept getting worse and worse. It resulted in a lot of lies (not on my part) and drama. And because of all that, we didn't end on good terms. I don't talk to this guy, and I'd be perfectly content if I never had to see him again. We aren't even Facebook friends. And that's just fine with me.

"Tomorrow you'll be thinking to yourself,
Yeah where did it all go wrong?
But this list goes on and on."

If I were to talk to him, this all I'd have to say to him...
I hate that you made me feel bad about things I shouldn't have felt bad about, like hanging out with friends when you didn't have plans. Like God forbid I hang out with somebody that wasn't you. And lying about serious issues, things that are a really big deal to some people, to get me to feel bad and take you back. You lied about sleeping with people. I don't even know what else you lied about. You never took me out unless I paid for BOTH of us, even though your family is clearly more well off than mine. I mean, your mom has an effing Camero, and you and your brother both got brand new cars for graduation. You guys have 2 different houses and go on cruises. On the other hand, my family has ONE car that's old and barely holding up, a small house with old furniture that doesn't match, and we don't even have a working dishwasher. Yet my family paid for everything. We even offered to give you gas money for when you'd come over, because you'd always complain about how coming over was a waste of gas, in your stupid new car that has great gas mileage. POOR YOU. Oh, and you hated the fact that most of my friends are guys. You'd throw a fit when I wanted to hang out with them. Because apparently, you couldn't trust me. You didn't seem to realize that even if they liked me, or made a move on me, I'd set them straight and let them know that I had a boyfriend and wasn't interested in anything but friendship. You'd get pissy with me when I didn't text you back right away, which is super hypocritical, considering you'd take forever to text me back a lot of the time. Oh, and I'm sorry, but you were kind of a WHINEY BITCH. It's great when guys are sensitive, but not when they're overly-emotional. I mean, sometime you were worse than a mestruating female. I'M supposed to be the girl. Not you. Plus, our religious views are totally opposite. I thinks it's fine when people are strong set in their religious beliefs. But there were too many things that clashed between us when it came to religion. And I can't stand when people are as close-minded and unaccepting as you are towards people who believe other things. Plus you were way too self-concious, no matter what I told you. You refused to listen. You were SO stubborn. And you just gave off this vibe, like you think you're better than everyone. I have so many more things I could say, but I don't want to be too mean. The fact of the matter is, I'm so glad I came to my senses and broke things off. There was no way I could have married you. I'm so much happier without you, it's unbelievable. I can actually hang out with my friends now. I can be vegetarian if I want (which I might) without having someone that's supposed to support me tell me that it's stupid. I can dance with any guy that I want, and go to parties without getting your permission, and having you there to supervise me. Oh, and by the way...next time you ask a girl to marry her, get a ring. And don't ask her when you're having problems, just to try to keep her tied down. Oh, and don't ask her while you're watching Lord of the Rings on a tiny television in a college dorm room. That's totally lame.


"Now you'll never see what you've done to me.
You can take back your memories, they're no good to me.
And here's all your lies, you can look me in the eyes
With that sad, sad look that you wear so well.

When you see my face,
Hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell.
When you walk my way,
Hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell."

Thursday, June 21, 2012

6.21.2012

So it's been a long time since I've posted. In that time, I've done a lot of thinking lately about my future. I'd be able to go to school an all that by working and with a lot of help from student loans and my parents. But, I've come to realize that at this point in time, school just isn't really my thing. So, looking at my other options, I've decided to join the military. I'm going to go Air Force. I'm not really sure what I'll do yet; I have to find out what I'm qualified to do before I figure that out.

Anyone who knows me and who is reading this right now is probably like "...what?" I'm sure nobody thought that I'd be the type of person to join the military. Honestly, I've never thought so, either. I've always said that I'd never make it in the military. But now, I feel like it's the right thing for me to do. I think that I really do have the strength to make it. The only concern that I have, is if I'm actually ready to grow up. I depend on my mom so much. And really, I'm not sure how to manage without her. I've come to realize that I'm actually a bit of a mama's girl. After basic training and tech school, I'd be living on my own. I won't have my parents with me, looking out for me. But I guess I have to grow up sooner or later.

I'm still waiting for a recruiter to get in touch with me. If someone doesn't call or email in a few days, I'm going to go ahead and call the recruiters myself. We'll just see, I guess.

I will be proud to serve my country. :)
On a completely different note, I'm completely obsessed with Justin Bieber. Yes, this is coming from the girl who is supposed to be growing up. But we all have our guilty pleasures. Haha. Anyway, he just came out with his new album, Believe, and I love it. He's definitely grown up since his "Baby, baby, baby" hair-flipping days. And, I'm one of the millions of girls who thinks he's extremely attractive. To be honest, I've dreamt about meeting him, like a lot. Haha. No shame. I'm a Belieber.

I was asked by my friend Anthony the other day what my type of guy was. At first, my answer was that I really don't know. But then, I realized that my type of guy is Justin Bieber. Haha just kidding. There's no way I could compete with Selena Gomez. But really, I wouldn't be able to date anyone famous. That would bring attention to myself, and I don't like being in the spotlight. I just want a normal guy. I love lists, so I'll make a list of what my perfect guy would be. I'll warn you now, I have high standards, and I doubt this perfect guy even exists.

The Perfect Guy:
-At least 5'10".

-Pretty blue or green eyes.
-Soft hair.
-Pretty teeth.
-Smells great.
-Nice arms.
-Has a good sense of humor.
-Easy to talk to.
-Loves animals and wants lots of cats.
-Vegetarian.
-No more than 3 years older than me.
-Sensitive, but not whiny or overly emotional.
-Not too clingy.
-Gives me space to hang with my friends, and he hangs with his.
-His views on religion are similar to mine.
-Someone I can trust.
-Can play guitar and sing and dance.
-Polite and respectful towards women.
-Has a good sense of style.
-In the Air Force, or is willing to move around with me when I'm stationed different places.
-Accepts my flaws, and doesn't make me overly aware of them.
-Can cook.
-Isn't a goody-good, and likes having a bit of fun sometimes.
-Would treat me to breakfast in bed occasionally. And of course I'd do the same for him.
-Good with kids.
-Doesn't make me feel inadequate or not good enough.
-Romantic, and maybe a little cheesy at times.
-A good listener.
-Doesn't try to make me feel bad about things that I shouldn't feel bad about.
-Loves amusement parks and roller coasters.
-Smart.
-Makes me feel safe.
-Easy to find gift for.
-Doesn't hate Justin Bieber or Ke$ha.
-Will watch baby shows with me. Like Arthur and Little Bear and Franklin.
-Gets along with my family.
-Tells me I"m beautiful. And actually believes it.
-Brings out the best in me.

I doubt this guy exists. But, if he does, maybe I'll get married someday. If not, oh well. I'm content with being single and having lots of kitties.

Well. I've been wanting to put a new blog up for quite a while. So here it is. I hope everyone has a great day, and something wonderful happens to you today. :)

Saturday, May 12, 2012

A Post That Doesn't Mention Kitties.

Well, I'm done at UCA, and my final grades came out. Basically, they sucked. And my GPA went down a lot. Never have I felt like such a failure. I have never come so close to just...giving up. I've given up on my goal of becoming a dentist. There's no way I'd get accepted to dental school. And I'm not going to waste 3 more years of school, just to set myself up for failure. I'm one of those people that, if I know I can't do something, I most likely won't try. For me, it's success, or failure. There is no in between. And I've already ruined my chances of success in whatever future I may have had as a dentist. So I don't even see the point.

Everything pretty much came tumbling down on top of me. My GPA, my attendance at UCA, my hopes and dreams and goals for my future. Pretty much everything that was important to me. And now I'm buried in this mess. In all of this...this failure. And now all there is for me to do is to try to overcome this. Dig myself out of this mess. Set some new goals. Something else to work for. Find new motivation to drive me. That's harder than it sounds though. This has been the biggest dream I've had. I didn't care about anything else, other than becoming a dentist. And now that that's gone, I have to start all over. I always have a plan. I like to know where things are going, so I can always be prepared. And not knowing is really hard for me.

I have an idea though. Before my dream of being a dentist, I wanted to be a zoologist and study animals. That's the only other thing that I've actually seriously considered for my future. So now, I'm hoping I can rebuild that dream. I plan on going to Beebe, and studying biological sciences. I fully intend on kicking ass there, so that once I have my Associates degree from there, I can transfer to UF (go Gators), and get my Bachelors in either Zoology or Wildlife Ecology and Conservation. Maybe I could even have one as a major and one as a minor. After that I could go to work in a zoo, or find another career having to do with wildlife. And maybe, after a while, I could go to graduate school, so I could be qualified to do research. That would give me a chance to travel. Or maybe I could become a large animal vet.

Really, I don't know exactly what I'm going to do, which is weird for me. I guess I'll figure it out as I go. The important thing is that I don't give up, and I do something with my life. And, with the path I'm choosing to take now, maybe I'll be happier than if I stuck with the whole dentistry thing. I get along with animals much better than I get along with people. Maybe everything that is happening is just a test of my strength, or part of a bigger plan. I really don't know. But I don't plan on letting it get the best of me. I will make something of myself, and give my family a reason to be proud of me.